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Can a Family Member Act as Executor and Waive the Executor Fee in South Africa?
Yes. A family member can be appointed as executor of a deceased estate in South Africa, and an executor is entitled to waive remuneration. But being related to the deceased does not lighten the legal load. The executor still carries every duty the law imposes, whether they are paid a cent or nothing at all.
A spouse, parent or child may be nominated or appointed as executor, subject to the requirements of the Master of the High Court. Importantly, the executor remains responsible for properly administering the estate even where they receive no executor's remuneration whatsoever.
This question comes up constantly in the Southern Suburbs, where the main asset in an estate is often a family home in Crawford, Athlone or Rondebosch East, and the surviving family wants to avoid piling unnecessary administration costs onto an already difficult time before the property is transferred or sold.
This article provides general information about South African deceased estates and is not a substitute for advice from an attorney, fiduciary specialist, accountant or the Master of the High Court.
Call to action: If your family is dealing with a deceased estate that includes Cape Town property, contact Lake Properties for a straightforward conversation about what the property is worth and how it fits into the estate process.
What Does an Executor Actually Do?
An executor is the person formally, legally responsible for administering a deceased estate. When someone dies, their assets do not automatically pass to the family. The estate must generally be reported to and administered under the supervision of the Master of the High Court before anything can be distributed.
A typical deceased estate can include:
- A residential property
- Investment properties
- Bank accounts
- Vehicles
- Shares and investments
- Household possessions
- Business interests
- Insurance proceeds in certain circumstances
- Outstanding debts
- Tax liabilities
- Other assets and claims
The executor's job is to work out what belongs to the estate, identify what is owed to creditors, attend to tax and compliance obligations, prepare the required estate accounts, and eventually distribute what remains to the beneficiaries. For a fuller breakdown of how the remuneration tariff itself works, see our earlier article on executor remuneration in South Africa. SARS explains that the executor administers the deceased estate after death and carries responsibility for the estate's tax affairs, while the Master of the High Court supervises the whole process specifically to protect the financial interests of the heirs.
Call to action: If the deceased estate includes a Cape Town property, an early, independent valuation helps the family understand the estate's likely value and whether selling or retaining the property makes financial sense. Get a Lake Properties valuation.
Can a Spouse, Parent or Child Be the Executor?
Yes — but appointment is not automatic
A common misconception is that being the deceased's spouse or child automatically makes someone the executor. It does not. The executor must be properly appointed through the correct estate administration process.
The deceased may have nominated an executor in a valid will. If there is no suitable nominated executor, or the nominated person cannot or will not act, the Master will appoint someone else through the applicable procedure. The Department of Justice provides the official forms for this, including the J190 Acceptance of Trust as Executor and the relevant nomination documentation.
For estates above the threshold requiring full administration, the Master issues Letters of Executorship once the paperwork is in order. One detail that matters a great deal to families: the Master may, in certain circumstances, require an executor to provide security (essentially a bond guaranteeing their conduct) — but the regulations carve out a specific exemption for a parent, spouse or child of the deceased from this requirement. That exemption relates only to security. It does not exempt the family member from administering the estate properly, correctly, and with full accountability.
Call to action: Before nominating a family member as executor, the family should honestly weigh up whether that person has the time, the financial literacy, the organisational discipline and the emotional bandwidth to carry the role through to the end. If the estate includes property, a business, several beneficiaries or meaningful debt, it is worth at least discussing professional support with an attorney or fiduciary specialist before deciding.
Can the Family Member Waive the Executor's Fee?
Yes — an executor may waive remuneration
This is where the distinction between being entitled to a fee and actually taking it becomes important. South African law does provide for executor remuneration. Where the will does not fix a different amount, the regulations to the Administration of Estates Act set the tariff at a maximum of 3.5% of the gross value of the estate's assets, plus 6% on income the estate collects after the date of death, subject to a minimum fee (currently R350) — and VAT on top where the executor is a VAT vendor.
Note the word gross. The 3.5% commission is calculated on the full asset value before any debts are deducted — so a R3 million house still attracts the fee on R3 million even if there's a R2 million bond against it. That is one reason the number can look larger than families expect.
SARS guidance likewise refers to this same structure — a percentage of gross assets, plus a percentage of post-death income — as the basis for executor remuneration in a deceased estate.
But an executor does not have to take the fee. For example, on a straightforward illustrative estate:
| Item | Illustrative figure |
|---|---|
| Estate gross asset value | R4,000,000 |
| Statutory 3.5% executor commission (excl. VAT) | R140,000 |
If the executor qualifies for that commission and chooses to waive it, the estate can potentially retain the full R140,000 rather than paying it out as remuneration. For a family working through a difficult time, that can be meaningful. This figure is illustrative only — the actual remuneration depends on the estate, the applicable tariff, any fee fixed in the will, income earned after death, VAT status, and any adjustment the Master decides to make.
That last point matters: the Master has the power to increase or reduce executor remuneration in appropriate circumstances, so the prescribed tariff is not an untouchable number even where it applies.
Call to action: Don't assume "free executor" means "free estate administration." Even where a family member waives the executor's fee, the estate can still face real costs for attorneys, accountants, conveyancers, valuations, Government Gazette advertising, compliance certificates, property maintenance, municipal charges and tax compliance. Budget for those separately.
Why Would a Family Member Waive the Executor's Fee?
1. The executor is also a beneficiary. Suppose a mother leaves her house to her three children and appoints one of them as executor. That child may simply decide they don't want to charge their siblings for winding up their mother's estate. Waiving the fee reduces the total cost borne by the estate — which, in this scenario, is really the family's own money.
2. The estate is relatively straightforward. One house, one bank account, no business interests, minimal debt, a handful of beneficiaries — in a case like this, the family may reasonably feel that a full professional executor's fee is unnecessary for the amount of work involved.
3. The executor wants to preserve the estate's value. Where an estate is financially tight, every rand matters. Picture a property worth R3,000,000 with a R1,800,000 bond and R200,000 in other liabilities — the actual equity left for beneficiaries is a fraction of the property's headline value, and the family may be far more sensitive to administration costs in that situation than in a wealthier estate.
4. The executor is financially secure. Sometimes a spouse or adult child is simply comfortable enough that they would rather not be remunerated for handling a parent's or partner's affairs.
Call to action: Look at the entire estate, not just the executor's fee. Before deciding whether to waive remuneration, work out the estate's likely total administration costs. Saving the executor's fee only helps if the family understands what other costs remain on the table.
Does Waiving the Fee Mean the Executor Has Less Responsibility?
No — and this is the single most important point in this whole article.
An executor who takes R0 in remuneration is still, in every legal sense, the executor. The duties do not shrink because the fee has been waived. A family member acting as executor may still need to:
- Report the estate to the Master
- Obtain the necessary appointment documentation and Letters of Executorship
- Identify and value every asset
- Identify and deal with creditors
- Open or administer the estate bank account where required
- Deal with SARS on income tax and estate duty
- Arrange property valuations
- Advertise for creditors where required
- Prepare the liquidation and distribution account
- Communicate with beneficiaries throughout
- Arrange the transfer of property
- Settle liabilities correctly and in the right order
- Distribute the estate according to the will or the law of intestate succession
- Keep proper, defensible records of every decision and transaction
The Administration of Estates Act gives the Master and the courts real powers over executors, including the power to remove an executor who is not performing the role properly — a fee waiver offers no protection from that scrutiny.
Call to action: Treat a family executor appointment like a professional one. Whoever takes it on should keep a written record — dates, amounts, decisions, correspondence — for every single transaction. It protects the executor as much as it protects the beneficiaries.
What Happens When the Estate Owns a House?
This is where deceased estates and Cape Town property intersect most directly. Say the deceased owned a house in Crawford. That property will likely need to be valued, maintained, insured, secured against vacancy risk, checked for municipal arrears, checked against any outstanding bond, included correctly in the estate account, and eventually either transferred to an heir or sold and transferred through the normal conveyancing process.
An executor cannot simply hand over the title deed and call it done. SARS notes that estate assets remain within the deceased estate during the administration process until the liquidation and distribution account has become final — only then can assets be transferred or delivered to beneficiaries.
Call to action: Get the property valuation early. A professional, market-related valuation gives the executor a realistic starting point for the estate's asset schedule and helps beneficiaries decide, with real numbers in front of them, whether selling, transferring or retaining the property is the better option. Lake Properties provides valuation and sales services across Cape Town's Southern Suburbs, including Crawford, Athlone and Rondebosch East.
Crawford vs Athlone vs Rondebosch East for Deceased-Estate Properties
If the deceased estate includes residential property, location has a real effect on the asset's value and therefore on the whole estate's financial position. Here's how the three suburbs compare at a glance:
| Factor | Crawford | Athlone | Rondebosch East |
|---|---|---|---|
| Property market | Established residential market | Diverse residential market | Generally stronger family-oriented demand |
| Typical buyer profile | Families, investors, first-time buyers | Families, investors, owner-occupiers | Families, professionals, investors |
| Investment appeal | Strong where rental demand exists | Strong depending on property and location | Often attractive because of location |
| Property types | Houses, dual-living properties, investment homes | Houses, flats and investment properties | Family homes, renovated houses and investment opportunities |
| Estate-sale opportunity | Can suit value-conscious buyers | Broad buyer pool | Potentially stronger demand for well-positioned homes |
| Key consideration | Condition and configuration | Exact street/location | Pricing and property condition |
These are general market observations, not a valuation of any specific property. The real value of a deceased-estate property depends on its size, condition, zoning, location, improvements, title conditions and current demand — which is exactly why a proper valuation matters more than a rule of thumb.
Call to action: Don't price an estate property off an old municipal valuation. Municipal value is not the same as current market value. Ask an executor to obtain a current, market-related valuation before any decision is made about selling. Request a Southern Suburbs valuation from Lake Properties.
Case Study: When Waiving the Fee Could Make Sense
The following is a composite, illustrative example and does not describe a real family or estate.
Consider a widower who dies leaving a house in Crawford valued at roughly R2.4 million, R350,000 in investments and cash, no business interests, three adult children, and a valid will. One child, who is financially comfortable, is nominated as executor and decides not to charge executor remuneration.
That decision can make practical sense here — the executor is also a beneficiary, and the estate itself is relatively uncomplicated. But the executor still has to make sure the estate is properly reported, that assets are correctly valued, that creditors are dealt with, that SARS requirements are met, that the property is administered correctly, that the liquidation and distribution account is prepared properly, and that all three siblings receive exactly what they're entitled to. The saving here comes from waiving the fee — not from skipping any part of the administration process.
Call to action: Use the family relationship carefully. Family ties can make an estate administration smoother, or they can make it much harder if expectations aren't managed. Keep every decision documented and make sure all beneficiaries understand the process as it unfolds, to head off disputes before they start.
Case Study: When a Professional Executor May Be Better
This is also a composite, illustrative example, not an account of an actual estate.
Now picture a more complicated estate: a R5 million family home, two rental properties, a business, various investments, multiple bank accounts, outstanding debts, four beneficiaries, and one minor beneficiary. One adult child wants to act as executor and waive the fee.
On the surface, that looks like a straightforward saving. But this estate carries real complexity — tax issues, ongoing rental income and property management, a business that may need to be valued, creditor claims, capital gains considerations, several separate conveyancing transactions, a minor beneficiary requiring extra safeguards, and the real possibility of disagreement between four adult siblings. In a case like this, bringing in professional administration, even at a cost, can significantly reduce the risk of an expensive mistake later.
The real question is rarely just "can we save the executor's fee?" It's closer to: what is the lowest-risk way to get this particular estate administered correctly?
Call to action: Compare cost against complexity, not just against the fee. A family executor is often the right call for a simple estate. A complicated one may justify professional help even when a family member is willing to do the work for nothing.
What About Selling the Family Home?
If the executor decides the property needs to be sold, that sale has to be handled as part of the formal estate administration — not treated as though the executor personally owns the house. A deceased-estate property sale typically involves confirming the executor's authority, confirming the estate's ownership, setting an appropriate asking price, obtaining and evaluating offers, accepting an offer on behalf of the estate, conveyancing, bond cancellation where relevant, municipal clearance, and finally distributing the net proceeds according to the estate account.
For a Cape Town property, having it professionally marketed also helps the executor show, if ever questioned, that the property was properly exposed to the open market rather than sold informally or below value to a family member.
Call to action: If an estate property needs to be sold, Lake Properties can assist executors and families with the sale and valuation of residential property across Cape Town's Southern Suburbs.
Can the Executor Charge Some Costs but Waive the Fee?
This is another area families often get confused about. There is a real difference between executor remuneration and legitimate expenses incurred while administering the estate. An executor who waives remuneration doesn't necessarily have to personally absorb every legitimate cost incurred on the estate's behalf — the estate can still pay for professional services or other necessary administration costs. The exact treatment depends on the nature of the expense and the applicable rules.
The principle that matters most here is transparency. If the executor is also a beneficiary, there should be a clear paper trail: what was paid, who was paid, why it was paid, which costs were genuinely incurred for the estate, and whether any of it doubles as disguised remuneration.
Call to action: Keep family money and estate money strictly separate. Never casually mix personal and estate funds — clean records prevent misunderstandings and disputes between beneficiaries down the line.
Five Questions Every Family Should Ask
Before appointing a family member as executor, it's worth sitting down and asking:
- Is the estate actually straightforward? One house and one bank account is a very different job from five properties, a business and several beneficiaries.
- Does the nominated executor genuinely understand the responsibility? Being the oldest child, or the closest relative, doesn't automatically make someone suited to the role.
- Will all the beneficiaries actually cooperate? An executor dealing with an uncooperative or hostile beneficiary faces a much harder administration process, regardless of how simple the estate looks on paper.
- Is the property likely to be sold? If the estate's major asset is a house, the executor needs at least a working understanding of valuation, marketing, offers and conveyancing — or needs to bring someone in who does.
- Would professional assistance ultimately save money? A saved executor fee means very little if an avoidable mistake ends up costing the estate far more than the fee would have.
Call to action: Have this conversation before it's needed. Ideally, families discuss who should administer an estate while everyone involved is still alive and able to weigh in on the decision, rather than under the pressure of a fresh loss.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can my daughter be the executor of my estate?
Yes, a daughter can potentially be nominated or appointed as executor, subject to the applicable legal requirements and the Master of the High Court's process.
Can my husband be the executor?
Yes. A spouse may act as executor once properly appointed. The Master's guidance specifically recognises a spouse, parent or child in relation to the security (bond) requirement in certain circumstances.
Can an executor refuse payment?
Yes, an executor can choose to waive remuneration. The estate administration responsibilities, however, remain exactly the same.
Does an executor get 3.5% of the property price?
Not exactly. The commonly cited prescribed tariff is a maximum of 3.5% of the estate's gross asset value (not just the property), and the actual figure depends on the applicable regulations, any fee fixed in the will, and the circumstances of the estate.
Is executor remuneration taxable?
There can be tax and VAT implications depending on the executor and the circumstances. Rather than assume an executor's fee is simply tax-free, get professional advice from an accountant or tax practitioner.
Can the Master reduce executor remuneration?
Yes. The Master holds powers relating to executor remuneration, including reducing or, in appropriate circumstances, increasing it.
Can the executor sell the deceased's house?
Yes, an executor may administer and arrange the sale of estate property as part of the formal estate process, subject to the applicable legal and conveyancing requirements.
What happens if the executor makes a mistake?
Being a family member provides no blanket exemption from responsibility. The Administration of Estates Act sets out mechanisms concerning executor conduct, including removal in specified circumstances.
Useful Resources for Families and Executors
South African Government / Master of the High Court
- Master of the High Court — Official Website
- Master of the High Court — Deceased Estates Information
- Administration of Estates Act 66 of 1965
SARS — Estate Duty and Deceased Estates
Master of the High Court — Cape Town
The Cape Town Master's Office is listed by the Department of Justice at the Dullah Omar Building, 45 Castle Street, Cape Town. See the Master's Office deceased estates page for current contact and process details.
Lake Properties Pro-Tip
Lake Properties Pro-Tip: If a deceased estate owns a house, don't wait until the family is ready to sell before establishing what the property is realistically worth. Obtain an independent, market-related property valuation early — it helps the executor understand the estate's true asset position, assists with planning, identifies potential equity, and gives beneficiaries a realistic expectation before a sale or transfer is even on the table.
Most importantly, don't choose a family executor purely because they're willing to waive their fee. The job is too important, and the responsibility too real, to let cost be the only factor in that decision.
Lake Properties — Property Sales, Valuations & Cape Town Southern Suburbs Property Services
Final Takeaway
Yes, a family member can act as executor in South Africa and can choose to waive executor remuneration. But there's a major difference between waiving the fee and waiving the responsibility. The executor still has to administer the deceased estate properly, deal with the Master of the High Court, handle creditors and SARS, account fully for every estate asset, and make sure beneficiaries receive exactly what they're legally entitled to.
For a simple estate built around one family home, a family executor who genuinely understands the responsibility can be a practical, cost-effective choice. For a complicated estate involving multiple properties, a business, meaningful debt, tax complexity or friction between beneficiaries, professional assistance may end up being worth considerably more than the executor's fee that gets saved.